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Leo in L.A.'s avatar

That damn onion, I just keep peeling .

I really loved the realization that the cringing kind of comes from an expectation of me that really doesn't exist.

Personally, I will add that being on steroids has caused me to have a big ole moonface that I barely recognize when I look in the mirror.

But when I lens out, I realize that I don't judge other people's physical appearances the way I judge my own. When I see people who carry what the media considers to be extra weight ... I think of them as friendly, huggable, appealing ... and safe ( ! ) .

And as I looked at my reflection in the mirror, I realize that * I * have that face. Maybe it's not such a bad thing that people think I'm friendly and safe. Maybe I just need to let go of the reflection I never really had. 😊

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Myles Katt's avatar

Your words have depth and wisdom. I was particularly struck with your realization about who you thought you were compared to who you really are. I think that's a persistent challenge we all face. The journey we take to ourselves is filled with powerful moments like the one you describe. I resonated with this very strongly.

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